Old Pumpkin = New Christmas Decor

Don't throw your pumpkins away after Halloween or Thanksgiving.  Dress them up and give them a second life with some spray paint and silk flowers.

I've kept it simple with white spray paint and a poinsettia and pine sprig, but you can use gold  or silver or even glittered spray paint.

These pumpkins have been a part of my outdoor decor from September to December this year.

Talk about stretching your dollar.

Merry Christmas, Charlie Brown...

Surrounded by hustle and bustle in my current suburban location, I find myself surrounded by folks who seem determined to have a Charlie Brown Christmas.  I hear it in line to check out at the grocery store, ladies talking in the food court at the mall and even on television.  I often wonder if they know what they're saying sounds like a quote from Charlie Brown.

"I think there must be something wrong with me, Linus. Christmas is coming, but I'm not happy. I don't feel the way I'm supposed to feel." said Charlie Brown.  "I like getting presents and sending Christmas cards and decorating trees and all that, but I'm still not happy. I always end up feeling depressed."

Year after year, I hear other mothers, co-workers and passers-by hum-drumming about how Christmas just doesn't seem right "this year".  I hear them talk about how they've done all that they should from buying all the right gifts to decorating up a storm... and yet they are still shoveling all this "Christmas spirit" into a void that can never be filled by such superficial things. 

I discovered long ago that Christmas should be about spending time with loved ones, making memories and honoring the Lord God for sending Jesus Christ, His only son, as a baby, born in a humble barn.

Speaking of humble, did I mention that, that this is our new theme at Christmas time?  Some people have a snow man theme, some angels and some Santa, etc.  This may shock some people, but my five and six-year-olds do not even mention Santa.  He does not bring them presents, nor do they write him letters requesting them.  We acknowledge him and agree that the whole idea of Santa is neat, but rather than threatening that he won't bring them presents if they are not good, we opt for something a little less conventional.  We stop as a family and give money to the homeless people along the road.  (Gasp! We really do.)  We donate toys to the Angel Tree Project.  We talk about giving gifts as a celebration of the ultimate gift that God gave to us - Jesus.

The next time you hear yourself sounding like Charlie Brown under holiday duress, broaden your  focus and center on the true meaning of Christmas - and everything else will fall into place.

Merry Christmas, Charlie Brown!

Christmas On The Farm

When your living is dependent on the cattle market or the weather, it seems that it is often feast or famine.  Being one of six children of a farmer/rancher, I can tell you that results of these less than dependable factors can be glaringly obvious at Christmas time.

My parents, though, were smart and resourceful and always made the most of what we had at the time.  I never really knew which year was feast and was which was famine.  Instead of dragging us along to shop among the throngs of frantic holiday-goers or fretting about excessive decorating, my parents chose to spend more time over more money and gave us holiday memories that still echo in my heart 20+ years later.

Each Christmas, we would load up and make the two hour trip to the Christmas tree farm where we would drink hot chocolate around a large outdoor fire and ride in a horse drawn buggy among the rows of fragrant green trees.  They would let us choose the perfect tree and then we cut it down ourselves and drug it to the cart path where it was picked up and loaded on our car.

Once situated in our living room, the smell of pine permeated the entire house - an amazing scent that meant the Christmas season had begun.  After stringing it with twinkling white lights and covering it with years worth of accumulated ornaments, we would often drink eggnog and watch Christmas movies.

Thinking back, I couldn't tell you what gifts I received or what kind of holiday goodies were baked or even how the house was decorated, but I can vividly remember cutting down our own Christmas tree and the warmth and togetherness that it inspired each year.

Take the opportunity this holiday season to purchase quality memories with your time, just as you purchase quality gifts with your money.  Many years down the road, your family will remember the things you did together, even when the memories of the gifts purchased and money spent have been long faded.